10 Questions To Ask Him Before Getting Married
For most women becoming engaged and getting married is one of the most important and magical event that they will experience. They want it to be absolutely perfect to the point that they become weak at the knees. This is in fact an amazing experience, but what is more important is making sure that he is marriage material. Couples need to be on the same page to make sure that the marriage is going to be a successful and long one. Most people get married with the intent to never divorce and you can minimize your chances of a failed marriage if you simply ask certain questions. Below is a list of 10 questions you should ask your boyfriend before getting married.
Do you want a family? How many kids would you like to have?
Do we have the same beliefs in religion? If not, will you support or convert to mines? What religion will we raise our children?
What are your thoughts about Holiday traditions? Would you prefer to start our own before or after we have kids?
Are you happy with the job you have and do you want to make a career out of it?
Would you like to move to improve our chances for making it further in life or are you content where we live now?
How do you want to live your life? Goals, achievements, etc?
Would you back me up on the importance of education to our children? Do you feel it is important to teach our children this?
Is having strong family values important to you? How close are you with your family? Do you enjoy seeing them often and every holiday?
How are you with budging money and handling your finances? Should we have a joint bank account or continue having separate accounts once we are married?
What do you consider cheating? Looking at another person, flirting, etc?
There are of course more personal questions that you might want to ask regarding intimacy and any other important issue to you. Love is powerful and wonderful, but you need more than just that to make any relationship to be healthy and successful. Marriages at times can take some work, but it is always worth it to make yourself and the person you are with extremely happy. A person you shares the same values and works well with your personality is always a plus.